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End of Life Planner

I’m Dead, Now What?

Make life easier for those you leave behind

A guided paperback planner that gathers everything your family will need — in one place, in your own hand.

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Everything they’ll need. Nothing they’ll have to guess.

Twenty sections. One quiet afternoon to begin.

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Front cover of I'm Dead, Now What? — black-and-white mandala pattern with an ornate butterfly at the centre Back cover of I'm Dead, Now What? — dark charcoal mandala pattern with a white dove carrying a flower

Why it exists

When someone dies, grief arrives with paperwork.

Accounts and passwords, policies and payments, wishes never written down — the people you love are left to reconstruct your life while mourning it. This planner is a single, physical place to record it all now, so they never have to search.

Inside the planner

What it helps you organize

Twenty guided sections, from practical records to final words.

  • My personal details
  • Key contact
  • Medical information
  • My important documents
  • Funeral wishes
  • My financial details
  • Insurances list
  • Rental agreement
  • Regular payments
  • Significant possessions
  • Useful contacts
  • Digital accounts
  • Access to & location of important items
  • Arrangements for children
  • Arrangements for pets
  • My personal wishes
  • Letters to loved ones
  • Expression of gratitude
  • Final words
  • Thanks page & signature

Who it’s for

Made for the people doing the thinking ahead

Planning for yourself

You’d rather your family inherit answers than questions. Fill it in at your own pace and keep it with your important papers.

Helping a parent

A gentle, structured way to sit down together and get the essentials out of their head and onto paper.

Organizing as a couple

One planner each, or one shared afternoon — either way, both of you know where everything stands.

How it works

Four small steps

1

Get the planner

It ships as a large-format paperback from Amazon.

2

Fill it in at your pace

Start with the practical sections; the personal ones can wait until you’re ready.

3

Tell someone where it lives

One trusted person who knows where to look is the whole point.

4

Revisit once a year

Accounts change. A yearly pass keeps it true.

Look inside

The pages themselves

Actual pages from the planner. Select any page to enlarge it.

Questions

Asked, answered

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What people tell us

Reviews shared by verified Amazon purchasers.

john donohue

Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2025

Great insight
I think the author sharing his personal experience really helped me understand what he was trying to say in the book. I really felt like the book helped me quite a bit.

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Michael

Reviewed in the United States on June 26, 2023

Great idea
I became a young widow & this book helped me organize & prepare for my own demise & become less scared of the inevitable future.

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Lucy

Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2024

Useful
So many useful pages with headings for you to put in your information. Lots of room and so many extra pages. Allows for everything you need to make known for after that dreaded day of travel.

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Donna

Reviewed in the United States on December 30, 2021

Excellent organizer for end of life decisions
This workbook made it easy to walk through everything that needs to be done for end of life decisions. There are things that I had not considered, so it was nice to have the fill in the blank format.

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Rittskies

Reviewed in the United States on April 4, 2023

Very thorough and sets a good tone
This book is incredible and leaves no stone unturned. Has a lot of information in it that I wouldn't even think that someone would need to know if I pass away unexpectedly. And it is light hearted enough to fit my personality well!

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Meredith Childress

Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2021

A must buy
I recently purchased your book named 'Planning My Death' and to be honest I may be a little pumped about getting everything organized for my family after I leave this crazy place! I recently lost my mother and unfortunately, she passed unexpectedly and her affairs were not in order, which was a mess. When I saw this book, it was a no-brainer. I am still young-ish but you just never know. Your book is awesome!

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Jules

Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2024

Everyone Needs This!
This book is a must, and not just for the elderly. By listing all of your important info in one place, including but NOT limited to bank account info, bills, funeral plans, & insurance info you are giving a huge gift to your survivors. Please, get this book, fill it out and let your loved one know exactly where it is kept.

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Barbara

Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2021

An important book for your loved ones
My husband requested this book because I handle most of the business and running of the home, and he did not want to be left to try to figure things out alone if I pre-deceased him. This book had really comprehensive categories and extra pages where you could add notes, cover a topic not included in the book, or continue a section where you needed additional pages. I worked on this book to fill it in. We went over it together to be sure he could read my handwriting and understand what I meant by things. And we now have a sense of peace and confidence that things will go well if I am not here. It was a most needed and well done book that anyone who leaves loved ones behind should want to complete.

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Ready when you are

Begin the kindest paperwork you’ll ever do

The planner is available as an 8.5 × 11 inch paperback on Amazon.

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8.5 × 11 inch paperback · ASIN B0883X87MD